Forgiven
& Free: Do you Struggle with
Forgiving Yourself?
Happy
Sunday! The Topic that I will be delving into this evening, is Forgiveness,
more specifically learning to forgive yourself. Personally, I have struggled
with this for years. Whenever I fall short, or sin, or do something that I feel
goes against my set belief system, I tend to try and make myself, pay in for
it. I verbally say things such as “how could you” “my goodness, you should know
better” “oh, I can’t believe I did that” “Yea you are really going to suffer
for this one,” and so on. So, what I have done in the past, is to literally
deny myself of things, just so I can feel that I have punished myself for the
sin.
As I am writing this blog and informing you of exactly
why I have struggled to forgive myself for years and years, I realize how
irrational, un-wise, foolish, plain “stupid”, and most of all religious this
behavior is. If I truly believe the power of the Cross of Christ, and truly understand
that the price for all my sins has been paid for once and for all, then why do
I feel I need to take the place of God and pay another price, as if to say I
have the Power to forgive my own sins. If I truly believe the power of the
Cross of Christ, and truly understand that a price for all my sins has been
paid for once and for all, why do I feel the need to punish myself, for the
punishment that has already been received by Christ depicted by the torment, humiliation,
six-inch thorns driven into his skull and the excruciating pain of my Savior’s
crucifixion on the cross. If I truly believe the power of the Cross of Christ,
and truly understand that the price for all my sins has been paid for once and
for all, why do I feel the need to wrap all the pain, shame, anger,
frustration, sorrow, regrets, and humiliation from my sins in the pockets of my
heart, which ultimately will eat me up within and destroy me.
Making the
decision to not forgive yourself, is purely a sense of Pride, in case you
thought it was a form of humility due in part to you showing God how sorrowful you are for missing
the mark or falling short. It is also a form of Pride for the following reasons
(please note the
following are points I would like to highlight from the allaboutgod.com article
titled Forgiving Yourself- A Belief System):
Ø
If
you do not forgive yourself of past sins, it is a form of pride. Whenever we
enact a different set of rules, a higher set of standards for ourselves over
others that is pride.
Ø
When
we can find it within ourselves to forgive others, but not ourselves, we are
saying that we are less capable of making a poor decision than others. We are
somehow more intuitive, wiser, more insightful, more careful than others, and
therefore, we are without excuse and should not forgive ourselves.
Ø
When
we reject the forgiveness extended to us by God and others, when we refuse to
forgive ourselves, what we are doing is setting ourselves above others and that
is pride! Proverbs 16:18 says,
"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall."
Ø
Un-forgiveness
of oneself will bring self-destruction, a haughty spirit, and a fall. Christian
forgiveness will bring peace.
So,
here we go, Lord, I let go of all the un-forgiveness I have held within me. I
let go and I give you permission to bring the healing and sanctification I need
within my brokenness and distorted thinking. Help me to never underestimate the
HIGH PRICE you paid on the cross for me. Help me to look back on that price,
and truly believe that it was a once and for all price. Thank you for your Love
Jesus, and your Desire to bring my struggle of not forgiving myself to light.
Thank you for caring and loving me. Father,
I ask you to fill every heart reading this blog, with a sense of peace and
delight that comes from you, as they let go of the self-un-forgiveness within their
hearts. Release Hope and Refresh their inner man. In Jesus Name I Pray, Amen!
Please feel
free to pray the above prayer. The Lord is also saying this to you,
“My Child, you still don’t understand the significance of the sacrifice I paid
on the Cross. I am pleased with you, no matter what you do, or have done, or
will do in the future. I want to bring you into a new realm of a freedom in me
you know nothing about. It took this circumstance to open your eyes to a new
forgiveness and healing. Just receive, just receive the peace that comes with
the price that was paid. Let go of all the tension, anxiety and nervousness,
and receive my Peace that surpasses your excuses, your fears, your self-righteousness,
your perfectionist mentality, your fill in the blank. Just let Go! Allow me
wash you, purify you, lift off the physical, emotional and mental load you’ve
been carrying. The load was never meant for you to carry. So give every bit to
me. I have you covered, with the all-time sacrifice. Nothing will separate you
from my Love (Romans 8:31-39) – Love, Your Daddy God Who Rejoices Over You
With Singing!
It's NOT about being PERFECT, it's about being FORGIVEN!
April 19, 2015…To Be Continued on
the next blog article dated April 26, 2015
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